
Lately I've been finding myself gravitating towards those of the opposite sex that I've had previous relationships with. We aren't always necessarily reconnecting in a romantic sense, but there is interaction nonetheless. On some level I suppose it's possible for there to be truly platonic friendships between a man and a woman, but I am highly skeptical if those can occur between two people who have previously been in a relationship. So what's the point? Shoot, I don't know. I suppose that's why I'm rambling about it on here because it's hard for me to truly discount people who have been a significant part of my life at some time. It's easy to have selective memory after some time passes and to look at people with a keen remembrance of what made them so fantastic and easily forget all the things that annoyed you to no end. And is it not easier to find comfort in something you already know rather than continually be met with disappointment after disappointment when you wander into the unknown?!
So I'm just wonderinga€¦how many people out there find success when they go with what they already know. Do people really fundamentally change (or do you)? I need to know if it is all a waste of time or if you can really find hope in the ashes. I'm all in to being green these days and so maybe this applies to men as well.
Recycle a€" Reduce a€" Reuse.