How diamonds are made

Some of you may have heard of me but very few of you truly know me. This is why I would like to thank Yardbarker for giving me this opportunity to speak my mind. I never thought I would be a blogger but I am excited and think this experience is going to be fun.

The experience that I have had in the last 5 years as a professional football player has provided me a limitless archive of topics perfect for blogging. I could certainly write a novel about my first year experience as an Atlanta Falcon. Despite the grueling training camps, exhausting workouts, tedious film sessions, painful losses, I would not trade this experience.

My football career is only the tip of the iceberg when it comes to who I really am and what I am about. Let's face it; we live in a world of stereotypes based on race, class, gender, occupation etc. There is nothing that infuriates me more than someone who assumes I am one-dimensional because I am an African American who plays a professional sport. Most people assume that I have a huge ego, spoiled, selfish, have several baby momma's (I am currently without children), business illiterate or barely educated. I know that these stereotypes do not apply to most of my friends in the league and certainly do not apply to me.

People are consistently surprised when I tell them that although I am proud of what I have accomplished in the NFL it is just one of the many goals that I have for myself. I am well aware that the NFL stands for Not for Long and because of that I have been very adamant about preparing my self for life after football TODAY. All professional guys hear the horror stories of guys who were raking in millions and in as little as 9 to 12 months after retirement have to file bankruptcy and move back into their parents' home.

For those of you who don't know my parents, moving back in with them is not an option. My parents were both immigrants from Nigeria who came to America with very little money but extremely big goals and ambitions. With the combination of sacrifice, determination, and hard work they both graduated from college and now my father is an enormously accomplished OB/GYN and my mother has a masters in business and accounting and manages every aspect of my father's 3 private practices.

I say all this to elucidate that if they can accomplish this with what little resources that was available to them. Then I will be damned if I don't become the president of the United States with the head start that I had growing up in the U.S.A. (not trying to be the president people just using a example that our generation should are resources to the utmost opportunity)

I could go on all day Yardbarker but I will end with this; Failure is not nor has it ever been an option and neither is mediocrity. I know it is a lot of pressure to put on myself. However I am a firm believer that pressure brings out the best in people. How do u think diamonds are made?
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34 Comments On: "How diamonds are made"

 
Nice blog, I understand what you're saying my parents are from Haiti, so I know the pressure of trying to be successful so parents sacrifices werent made in vein.

Whats up my African brother. I def feel you on the pressure from parents from overseas. But I think its a good thing having a driving force to keep you inspired and motivated. Alot of my friends didn't have people in their lives to keep them accountable or break that glass ceilings of expectations for their lives.

Nice post. It is very refreshing to hear an athlete who thinks beyond the game. I believe that most do but only the blog really translates it into our world. Not to add more stereotypes, but I know a few people from Nigeria and they are highly intelligent with ridiculous hardcore work-ethics (some to a fault). I'm guessing that there is a survivorship bias for those who were strong enough to make it over here, but there must be cultural aspects as well - it is nonetheless impressive. Thanks for sharing and keep it coming.


preciate the encouraging words snitchin. And i can deal with the good stereotypes, especially those that come with being a nigerian. Im sure you never hear people of asian decent complaining that people stereotype them as being too smart :-)

Great post and better than a lot of the usual repeat boring stuff on here. Good luck on your career in and out of football.

Great post here. Thanks for sharing the other side that most fans don't get to see.

no prob nate

Welcome to the Yard Ovie.

Great Post Ovie, I write on here as well in golf section and I am impressed. Looking sharp on the video (no homo) . Go Panthers

john eades saying no homo, you have truly made my day sir.

Whats up john. I def appreciate the love coming from a fellow athlete (no homo). I know as a golf pro you don't have to fight to many stereotypes about the fact that you golf probably means you are a meathead, but I think you still understand where Im coming from. Best of luck to you with your season.

Welcome to the Yard, Ovie. I'm a Ravens fan, so I miss having you in Charm City, but it's great to hear you're doing well in the ATL. All the best.

thx man. its good to know i still got supporters in bmore. Because without the ravens giving me a chance I wouldn't be here today

Welcome, Ovie. I just came up with a name for your blog. "Ovie Mughelli: Brains and Brute Force." Print It!

i didnt know my blog needed a name. but i like the one you suggested. If anyone else has some other ideas please feel free to let me know something

very well spoken......first time hearing your name......will be looking out for you in the upcoming season

preciate the props. I dont believe in being cocky but i strongly believe in being confident in yourself. And i can confidently tell you to keep watchn #34 on the falcons because come this season, IM GONNA BLOW UP

hey Ovie, great post! always great to see someone who is so well-rounded...i agree with the "brains and brute force" title. :)

Nice Post. Nice to see a professional athlete coming out and talking about something other than how good he is and letting people know a little more about him.

thx man. I hope i dont disappoint you because in the reply above i spoke about how good i am going to be. But trust me, if you keep on reading my blogs you will see that there is alot more to me that meets the eye.( im a HUGE Transformers fan)

Ovie--great post, and welcome to the Yardbarker family. We're glad to have you on board.

'Failure is not nor has it ever been an option and neither is mediocrity.' - words to live by.

Welcome to the Yard, Ovie! I hope to see you opening up a lot of holes for the dynamic duo of Turner and Norwood next season and beyond.

Great post. After everything your team went through last season, I'm sure the stereotypes for football players in Atlanta are even more glaring than ever before. You and Yardbarker are going to help change that!

Ovie, you da man! We sure miss you here in B-More. All the best!

Ovie, this is a great read. I'm thrilled you're in the Yard... keep it up my man.

Welcome to the yard! Great blog.
Good luck in the upcoming season!

welcome

Good luck next year Ovie from a Ravens fan. Things are on the way up for ATL.

Nice to see an Atlanta Falcon in the Yard! You came in with some really unfortunate circumstances this year, but I can't wait for the upcoming season. Here's hoping you guys have a blockbuster draft, and really get the ball rolling. I'm excited to see you running with Turner and Norwood in the backfield.

My username may say Philly fan, but I'm just as much a Falcons fan, and I hope I can see the Falcons back in the playoffs nice and soon.

thx philly fan. The falcons need all the fans we can get. Its gonna be hard to win the city back over but after we win a couple of games im sure theyll come around. i had no idea when the falcons signed me what a circus the season was going to be but looking back...i would do it all over again because i grew alot from the experience. And i appreciate this sport alot more and will never take it for granted

Great stuff Mr. Mughelli. Looking for big things from you and the birds this year. Living in Flowery Branch, I'll definitely make it out to watch some practices to see a fellow Yardbarker.

Welcome Ovie, I have to appreciate athletes like you who take their time out of the day and connect with the fans

Wow. I just watched your interview, you are awesome! I wish people like you in the NFL would get more exposure, rather than the people who always get in trouble and are bad role models. I am sure there are many more outstanding people in the NFL like you. Keep up all the good work and good luck to you!

Thanks for opening up and letting us know more about you. Good to see a brother handling his business on and off the field with both the talent and education.

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