Gypsy-Rose Blanchard’s Feud With Ryan Anderson Explained: Why Exes Are Still Fighting

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That changed after Anderson recently went live on TikTok and claimed Blanchard had texted him in January 2025, just weeks after giving birth. He said that Blanchard had asked if he was dating someone else. In the live stream, Anderson was allegedly throwing some of Blanchard’s old possessions out the window because he was upset by comments she made on Gypsy Rose: Life After Lockup.

Anderson later shared a screenshot of the alleged text exchange. The messages, said to be from Blanchard, read, “Are you with Amber J?” “I feel lost,” and “Like I don’t know what is real anymore.”

“I speak the Truth…always have. Only be real…” Anderson captioned the post.

TikTok user ConspiraTea, who has been detailing the feud, shared a screen recording of Blanchard responding to Anderson. “How about you quit talking about me?” she said in the clip, which was recorded while she was at New Orleans’ Jazz Fest with Urker last weekend.

“It’s been three f****** months since I texted you and you’re spiraling out of control,” Blanchard continued. “So just remember, just as much dirt as you have on me, I have on you, honey. You punch at me, I punch ten times harder. Go see a therapist!”

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Blanchard posted an emotional follow-up video on Monday (May 5), where she said, per People, “Whenever you put out text messages between you and I that I think are sacred… When I mean sacred, I mean that, there are very few people I trust in this world. I have always counted you as one of them.”

“I reached out to you when I was two weeks postpartum and I didn’t know how to handle my emotions. I’d just had a baby, my literal whole life changed in an instant,” a teary-eyed Blanchard continued.

She added, “I don’t regret having Aurora; she’s the best thing that ever happened to me. But, I leaned on you… because I trust you.”

After admitting she “felt distant” from Urker in the first weeks after giving birth, Blanchard stated, “I told you everything that was on my heart and in my head. I thought that that was gonna stay between us, did I tell Ken? Eventually I did. But I never aimed to hurt you.”

Later in the video, Blanchard claimed Anderson has two sides, his “TikTok personality” and “the real Ryan Anderson.”

“When I see you on TikTok, acting the way you do, talking the way you do … that’s not the man that I married,” she said, getting emotional. “It’s so hard to see what you have become. I just want the best for you. I want you to be happy. I want you to move on. I want you to move on with someone that’s going to make you happy, that’s going to love you like you should be loved.”

“I always said Ken is my love, but you were my comfort. You were my safe place because I knew that you never would hurt me. And I’m just tired of this war and I want it to end,” she added, noting that she “can’t keep texting” Anderson.

“As long as I keep talking to you, you feel some sort of connection. But that can’t be. We can’t do that. We’re not at that space,” she said.