ONE Championship Chairman and CEO Chatri Sityodtong recently appeared on The Tim Ferriss Show to share his journey from Thailand to building the world’s largest martial arts organization – and the conversation revealed insights about resilience, purpose, and the power of fighting for something bigger than oneself.
Chatri Sityodtong’s story begins with tragedy and abandonment. When his father’s real estate business collapsed in Thailand during the 1990s, the family lost everything. His father, consumed by shame, disappeared entirely. The two would reunite decades later, when Sityodtong tracked him down and asked him the reason why he left.
“He was a man of very few words, and in his own way explained that as a Thai man growing up, he felt so ashamed of himself that he could not no longer provide food for his family,” Chatri Sityodtong said.
“And it’s just the way society works. Maybe it’s Asian society, maybe it’s Thai society, but in many ways, it was just easier for him to just, I guess, disappear rather than face every day looking at his kids and his wife.”
This abandonment became the foundation of Sityodtong’s extraordinary relationship with his mother. After he moved abroad to study, she moved into his tiny Harvard dorm when they had nowhere else to go. Living on $4 per day, sleeping on the floor while his mother took the bed, Sityodtong discovered a fundamental truth.
“When someone loves you, it gives you strength. When you love someone, it gives you courage. And I think that’s a very true statement when it comes to my relationship with my mother. She gave me both in that she loved [me]. I could feel her unconditional love, hence, it gave me strength to do things when I was full of fear, doubts, and insecurities,” Sityodtong said.
Despite achieving success on Wall Street as hedge fund manager, Chatri Sityodtong experienced a profound existential crisis during what he calls his “$100 million lunch” moment.
Sitting alone at a sushi restaurant after a record-breaking year, he realized the emptiness of purely financial pursuits. This moment of clarity brought back his mother’s childhood words that had echoed throughout his youth.
“I remember so well when I was 5 years old, but my mom would repeat this all of the time throughout my elementary and middle school years. She would always say, ‘Chatri [is] going to grow up to help people.’ I know every mother says that to their child. It was weird. When I was at that sushi restaurant, those words came to me,” Chatri Sityodtong said.
ONE Championship’s breakthrough came through an encounter with Sequoia Capital’s Mike Moritz and Douglas Leone. In a casual breakfast meeting that felt like talking to family members, these investors recognized something special. Sityodtong remembers Moritz delivering words that would prove prophetic.
“At the end of the breakfast Mike says, ‘Most founders are there for a business opportunity. They see a pain problem, a pain point in the market, and they solve the solution, and they go IPOs or they sell the company, and then they move on to the next thing.’ And he just looked me in the eye and says, ‘This is going to be a home run no matter,’” Sityodtong said.
Central to Sityodtong’s philosophy is the distinction between self-serving and transcendent motivation. This principle extends beyond business to life itself. Drawing from Bruce Lee’s wisdom, Sityodtong advocates for embracing difficulty.
“If you’re fighting for yourself, you’re fighting because you want a six-figure salary, you’re fighting because you want to buy a nice car, it’s very easy to quit. But when you’re fighting for something bigger than yourself, it’s impossible to quit,” Sityodtong said.
Perhaps most powerfully, Chatri Sityodtong articulates how suffering becomes the crucible for excellence. His daily training with World Champions, despite being the company owner, embodies this philosophy of continuous growth through adversity.
“Suffering is the path to our greatness, because it brings out the best in us, and it’s a hard thing to understand when you haven’t suffered, but when you do suffer, be grateful for the suffering,” Sityodtong said.
In transforming his own pain into purpose, Sityodtong has created a platform that does exactly that for millions worldwide. From sleeping on dorm floors to building a billion-dollar sports empire, Sityodtong’s journey demonstrates that our greatest challenges often become the foundation for our most meaningful contributions to the world.
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