Found July 05, 2009 on Online Sports Guys:
TEAMS: Tennessee Titans
PLAYERS: Steve McNair
Mcnair

((HT: Tennessean/Kate Howard))

The sister of Sahel Kazemi ((pictured, thanks Tennessean/family photo)) says she was a young woman who wanted to have fun and couldn't have hurt anyone - not herself, nor anyone else.

Kazemi was actually the aunt of Sepideh Salmani, but they were raised as sisters. Salmani's mother adopted her when she was 9, after Kazemi's mother was killed in their native Iran. Salmani talked to her sister every day, and said she was very happy in her relationship with Steve McNair.

She doesn't believe her sister killed McNair, or herself.

"She was one, young girl who had so many dreams that they never came true," Salmani said. "She would never kill anyone, ever. Or anything. Not even a little bug. I want people to know that."

An autopsy has been ongoing this morning. A press conference is scheduled this afternoon to discuss the findings.

Metro police have said that McNair was found sitting on the sofa, shot several times. Kazemi was lying on the floor with a single gunshot to the head and a pistol near her body.

Disbelief was also building near Kazemi's Hermitage home, where police were interviewing neighbors Saturday.

Regan Howard said when Kazemi first became her neighbor, she didn't know if it was Kazemi or McNair who moved in since he was there so much.

"She was such a nice girl," Howard said. "I can't believe she would do that."

When McNair got her the Escalade, Howard said, she had to help her figure out how to use the remote starter.

Salmani said she talked to her sister nearly every day, and that she'd been hearing about McNair for several months, since he started coming to Dave & Busters and chatting her up.

"He started to talk to her a little," Salmani said. "They exchanged phone numbers, and started dating from there."

Kazemi told her sister that McNair was in the process of divorcing.

"That's why she was like, 'OK, now you're divorcing. We can date,'"
Salmani said. "He told her, it was going to be finished, the whole divorce was going to be done, two weeks from yesterday."

Although a check of Davidson County's court records shows there is no divorce pending — at least in Nashville — McNair's house is for sale. His wife, Mechelle McNair, hasn't spoken to the media. Police said she is distraught over his death.

Salmani said her sister believed that she and McNair would move in together once the divorce was final, and eventually marry.

"All she was trying to do was have fun,"
Salmani said. "Nothing else. I believe there is a third person involved."

Kazemi first came to Nashville nearly four years ago with her then-boyfriend, Keith Norfleet. They broke up about five months ago, and she started seeing McNair soon after.

She probably didn't know who McNair was, Salmani said, until her colleagues at the restaurant told her. Salmani now fears McNair was using her sister, because she was a young woman with a pretty face. She fears jealous people in his life are the reason her sister is dead, and won't live out her dreams.

Her greatest dream, Salmani said, was to be famous.

"I think she is now,"
she said. "She is everywhere."

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Comments (11)
  • hockeychick23
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    Unfortunatly, the family is always the last to know if there is something wrong with another family memeber. People with mental illness, or those who harbor homicidal/suicidal tendecies don't often show them to the outside. You often hear people saying, "I should've recognized the signs" but, there may have not been any. A person can seem perfectly normal, happy and you would never know. This is incrediably tragic. And everything the police are doing is pointing to murder/suicide.
  • My heart goes out to mcnair family,and other family,mainly her sister,I hope the police department does an ivestigation,on boyfriend and others--god bless!!
  • phillyfannaz
    yeah there was a third person sahel's other personality. Looks like that messing around with a youngin got the old man smoked. guess that wouldnt happen had he been at home with his wife and kids.
  • What could he have done to deserve this? Did he say he wasn't leaving his wife or what? Just leave him, he wasn't worth this neither did he deserve it.
  • mitressehc
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    New reports ARE saying that the police are veering away from a murder/suicide, they are entertaining the idea that there was a third person involved. Either way, one of my favorite athletes of all time is dead and nothing is gonna change that. I hope they get to the truth so that his family can get closure. R.I.P. Steve. You will be missed.
  • The report also sd,he was going to divorce his wife in two weeks,the sister could be a suspect,I hate to say it,all specualtion,sister was envy and wanted more. Also wife,phillyfannz,you are right,should have been at home,and stop going to all those sports bars,looking for younger chicks---but he did nt deserve four,that was personal period!!!!rip Steve
    • BowlBound
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      I'm sure they will get to the bottom of it. If a gun was found beside the chick, that definitely leads to the murder-suicide theory, but until they do all of the investigating, anything is specualation at this point. The thing that wasn't speculation is that he was doing a 20-year old chick while he was still married and bankrolling her car and apartment.
  • Two important facts need to be remebered here folks. One how many females that are pissed enough to blow a lover away would shoot twice in head and chest, my guess is { especially as big as he was}, there
    would have been bullet holes every where if she was the shooter, not buying it, Secondly her family said she purchased a gun,I would start with her father, uncles, brothers ect. Some men from the middle east think nothing of taking out a wife, sister, daughter, mother if they feel the have brought shame to the family. She was 22 and he much older, not of middle east decent and above all bedding down with a married man. I'm guessing that there was unhappy men in her family. If she really did purchase the gun, I hope she shared that info with a friend ,I would not just take the family's word for it.
    • BowlBound
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      It doesn't matter how big you are when a bullet hits you between the ears.
  • Freedom of Speech
    First, it is a sad situation for both familes of the deceased. Some
    athletes thinks they can sleep around and commit adultry and not get in trouble. He probably was meeting all her wants the money, cars, home, trips,sexual relations etc; and he got caught up. Mr. McNair should not have been cheating it is wrong.I hate it so much especially for his wife that did not know and his children.
    No matter who you are or what profession you are in, if you comitt a sin,(lying, cheating,adultry,fornication, gossiping, stealing,etc); you will surely pay the price and I am not talking about with money.

    I am waitng as well as others to hear the outcome of the investigation.
  • BowlBound
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    Well, the news is out that the girl bought a gun on Thursday, so it's looking more and more like she was the shooter.
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