Via Larry Brown Sports:
Deion Sanders is involved in a divorce with his wife, Pilar, that has become nasty at times. Pilar has made some damaging accusations about her soon-to-be ex-husband, and Deion has shot back. But things got really bad between them recently if the following two tweets sent from Deion’s account on Monday afternoon are true:
Pray for me and my kids now! They just witnessed their mother and a friend jump me in my room. She’s going to jail n I’m pressing charges!
— DeionSanders (@DeionSanders) April 23, 2012
I’m sad my boys witnessed this mess but I warned the police department here that she was gone try n harm me and my boys. This is on my mama!
— DeionSanders (@DeionSanders) April 23, 2012
Sanders then tweeted the above picture of he and his kids filling out a police report.
If you’re wondering why he would take this information public, it’s probably because he’s looking to gain a favorable judgment in his divorce. He’s also sacrificing some public embarrassment for himself and his family over the incident.
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April 25, 2012
He is also a lound dresser and as far as I'm concerned his wife has every right to beat the hell out of him for the way he dresses himself in those loud, ridculous, pimp clothes he wears every Sunday during the pregame show! NO CLASS!
So hard to find a woman that has forgivness in her heart these days, well, were there any days for that, I wonder ? ''Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned'' has been a saying thats been around a while.
Word of advice gold digger types are everywhere these days, pre numps are the main words ..
Also, perception is a lost art !
Look into the eyes and question the soul, with your own eyes.
Percieve within, finding inner beauty is an art form..
finding exterior outer beauty is just lust..anyone can do that.
The ol sayings are true today, seek and ye shall find, but define well, how and what you seek, and you can find happiness.
I have 38 years of happy marriage to speak from. nuff said.
Mike
In my state, physically attacking a spouse or other person living within the same domicile is a FELONY offense, punishable with jail time.
IF his wife DID physically assault him, then he should file a complaint as the police very likely will not file charges as they should. (Publicizing it by using his children is wrong, and is going to cost him in divorce court however.)
I make this comment to bring to your attention that several states have "Mandatory Arrest" laws that are often abused by the police and these laws need to be changed. They are most often used to arrest and prosecute the male VICTIM as though he were the offender.
How do I know this? Because it happened to me. My wife became physically more aggressive every time we had a disagreement. She became violent and escalated to a higher level of violence each time.
When she started to use weapons that could be fatal, I warned her to stop the violence. Eventually she escalated to the point that I called the police to intervene and de-escalate her. Instead they arrested ME because I was the man and said, "That's the way we do it in this state!"
I was arrested, physically abused by the police and the jailers, fingerprinted and locked up without being allowed to contact an attorney. I was refused medical care for my injuries and medications that I need every day. I believed I was going to die in that jail (2 others have died there in similar circumstances).
In a "Mandatory Arrest State" you are going to be denied your civil rights. The police DO NOT have to show probable cause to arrest you, jail you and prosecute you!!! They can and do make some terrible mistakes in their judgment.
I am 60 years old and have never struck another human being in my life. I have never been in more trouble with the law than a speeding ticket for 5 mph over the limit. And yet the police that responded to my 911 call DESTROYED MY LIFE!
With a conviction, I would loose my professional license and along with it the ability to make a living. My wife and everyone around us just said to take a plea in abeyance (essentially a guilty plea without having the expense of a trial - you still pay the court costs, fines, bail, and do parole, if not jail time).
Five months of hell later, I was acquitted of all charges by a jury trial, even though my wife perjured herself by telling an entirely different lie than she originally told the police when they responded to my 911 call. The jury saw right through the lies that she and the police were telling and only deliberated long enough to assure they all found me not guilty.
I now have an arrest record that will not go away. The police "made me their case" that day, and will do it again now that I show up in their arrest records. I live in fear of them every day! When they walk into the 7-11 store, I put down what I have in my hands and leave.
Over a year later and I still can't sleep through the night. I wake up having vivid, haunting flashbacks of that day and how I was physically and mentally abused by those men in blue who are sworn to "serve and protect". I wake up with a jolt, hearing them laugh at me and torment me. I feel the physical pain over and over and over again. These police are simply hoodlums with immunity! (Please note that I do not say that ALL police behave like this, but one only has to read the headlines to see that it is not at all uncommon for them to abuse their police powers.)
When I was arrested, the police placed their handcuffs on me so tightly that my hands turned blue below the cuffs from lack of blood. They left them on this way for almost one and one/half hours, and the resultant nerve damage caused me to loose my job, as my hands now shake and I no longer have the dexterity to perform my job.
My ability to practice my profession and earn a livelihood was decimated by the police, in order that their statistics would show an arrest for their response to a "domestic" and THEY would look like they were doing their job.
While I was in jail, my wife closed out all of our bank accounts and deposited the money into accounts in her name only. She also cancelled all of our joint credit cards and insurance policies and did other damage that cannot be undone. She left me with $20,000 of her debt that I cannot pay.
At 60 years old, I no longer have a full time job to support myself. I had to use my retirement funds to pay for my legal fees and medical expenses. I have an arrest record that will show up any time a prospective employer does a background check. I was thrown out of my home into the street with the help of the police and my life was DESTROYED because my state has a "Mandatory Arrest" law that ENCOURAGES the police to arrest SOMEONE, so that they don't have to fill out the extra paperwork to show why they did NOT make an arrest if they had done the right thing.
Whether you live in a "Mandatory Arrest" state or not, I beg of you to learn how the Domestic Violence laws need changed in ALL states. When these laws were passed, it was to "protect women" and they remain with that noble purpose in mind.
The fact is today, that male and female offenders are very close to 50% / 50% in frequency. The laws that were designed to protect women are now often used by women as a weapon to harm men! There is a tremendous amount of money poured into the Domestic Violence pot that goes to some very powerful women's rights groups. (There is not a single shelter in my state that will accept a male victim of domestic violence.)
Mine is only one of THOUSANDS of stories of male VICTIMS of domestic violence whose lives are destroyed every year in the United States (and far more in other countries abroad) by once well-intended laws that need to be changed to protect the real VICTIMS of Domestic Violence, REGARDLESS OF GENDER or sexual orientation.
Violence is violence, and it should NOT be tolerated, regardless of who the violent person is. The Constitution and Bill Of Rights are being trampled into the ground by these laws and the people that enforce them. NOW is the time for change.
And one more thing please. Don't think that you, or one of your family members, friends or someone else close to you can't be the victim of these outdated laws and the people who are sworn to protect and serve you, the citizens. It CAN be you, or someone you love.
If you would have asked me just 18n months ago if I could be arrested for a crime I DID NOT COMMIT, for which there was NOT ONE SHRED OF EVIDENCE, that I could be physically and mentally ABUSED by the police, JAILED like a criminal and be treated WORSE than one - I would have said "Hell no!"
If you would have asked that one zealous police officer had the power to totally destroy my life in less than 60 seconds, I would have said "Hell no!"
If you would have asked me if I could loose my livelihood, my retirement, have medical bills I can't pay, have medical and dental needs that I can't afford, be practically unemployed and living in the streets, I would have said "HELL NO!".
But here I am, along with thousands of other victims of domestic violence of BOTH GENDERS, needing help and protection that I can't get. YES, it COULD happen to you or someone you love, and it will continue to happen until we REALIZE what is happening and DO something to change the Domestic Violence laws to be fair, equitable and do what they are supposed to do.
I implore you to visit the site of "SAVE" and learn more. Engage those in your communities and educate them. It will take a lot of time and money to make these changes because of the power of the groups getting the monies under the current law - bit IT CAN BE DONE! (Just don't expect much help from the politicians as they don't want to loose their power or popularity by doing the right thing.
May God bless us all.
a Victim of Domestic Violence
You need to check into having this expunged from your record and contact the Legal Aid Service in your area for help. Good Luck
I'm sure this is not the first time she has had to bust you up, you barely walking any way I'm surprise she had to bring a friend. Take off those clown shoes tweeting people that's for kids, not grown crusty men who got kids who got and friends that got to hear all this..You look foolish not her. All women or man will latch on to someone with money, especially when the person is willing to trick it off. You are going to have to answer to the Lord and this you must know. i don't know you or her but Pilar, press on, any man that will try to put you in jail and worth the $$$$ and he is Country & Ghetto and know Class can not be bought.
Mike